unwilling
adj
not willing or inclinedto do sth; reluctant 不愿意的; 不情愿的; 勉强的
unwillingvolunteers, victims, accomplices 迫不得已的志愿者、 牺牲者、 从犯
my unwilling participation in the scheme 我不得已参加这个计画
I was unwilling to co-operate without having more information. 我不想在了解不足的情况下参与合作.
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